You don't have to perform
being okay here.
Still Here is a private space to carry a loss: to talk about the person who died, to take a break from grieving, and to find your footing again, at your own pace.
Your first 25 messages are free. No card. For adults, 18 and older.
What it feels like:
That guilt after laughing is one of the most common things people carry, and it usually means the opposite of what it feels like. Laughing didn't mean you forgot her. It means some part of your life is still alive, which is something she was part of building.
What was it that made you laugh?
Our promises
Some of these are unusual for an app to say out loud. They are the point.
We never pretend to be the person you lost.
No messages written "from" them, no imitating their voice, ever, no matter how you ask. Research on grief suggests simulating someone who died can make loss harder to carry, not easier. We help you remember them and stay connected in your own voice instead.
We tell you when you need a human.
Every message is checked by a separate safety system. In a crisis, the conversation stops and a verified helpline for your country appears first, before anything else. A path to human help stays on every screen.
We are an AI, and we say so.
Still Here is research-informed but it is not a therapist and not a substitute for one. It will never claim otherwise, and it will never tell you that it's all you need.
Your grief is not a data source.
Conversations aren't stored on our servers. What you share during setup is encrypted, never used for advertising, and yours to export or delete in one click.
Grounded in grief research
Still Here is built on an explicit clinical design document drawing on the Dual Process Model of grieving (Stroebe & Schut), continuing bonds theory, meaning reconstruction (Neimeyer), and the ICD-11 and DSM-5-TR criteria for Prolonged Grief Disorder. The same document defines the lines the product will not cross, and when it must point you to professional care instead.